Updates from December, 2008

  • Chrysoula 5:45 pm on December 22, 2008 | 1 Permalink | Reply

    The inspiration brought on by walking outside at 4 am in a world covered in white and listening to the silence will only be revealed in fiction, I’m afraid.

    But I have a cute baby! We took him outside on Thursday, when the snow barely covered the grass. And they called THAT the Snowpocalypse!

    OK, he really looks more like a toddler in these pictures. The gallery is here.  

    There’s a lot more snow on the ground now. So much that I can’t take Robin out in it, because we simply don’t have the clothes to keep him warm when he’s sitting in snow up to his armpits.

    OK, it’s pretty dense stuff; I can walk on it and not break through to the ground beneath. So it wouldn’t be to his armpits. But it’s also very COLD stuff. I had to dig Hannah’s harness out of the snow when it came off Saturday night, and my fingers were numb when I was done.

    I did just take both dogs out front and take pictures of them. It isn’t the hijinks there’d be in the back yard with Dante unleashed, but a.) I’ve fallen enough moving Hannah around in this weather and b.) you can get a pretty good idea of what the Dante pictures would look like from the above gallery.

    Kevin is walking to the 7-11 to buy cigarettes. When he first suggested this yesterday I was very dubious, but after my 4 am stroll, I was a lot more enthusiastic, and a bit sad that I didn’t have an excuse/we didn’t have a stroller on skis. It’s getting dark soon, though…

    On Saturday, in the brief lull of ‘good’ weather, before the predicted Windocalypse (which was cancelled on account of snow), we went shopping for Robin. That kid isn’t going to know what hit him on Thursday!

    He really won’t. I expect tears and tantrums as we try to guide a 16 month old through present-opening rituals. (“No, baby, you can’t play with that new toy! You have to open another present! Can we have that wrapping paper now, kiddo? Time to get out of the giant box!”) It’ll be, as Kevin says, loltastic. I’m hoping to get some of it on a webcam to broadcast to his grandmother, probably via MSN Messenger.

    Oh, hey, obligatory Robin development report:

    Robin is  a bit more interested in walking instead of just cruising and crawling. If we support him, he’ll walk all over (and he used to immediately lift his feet or sit down if we supported him, so it’s progress), and occasionally he’ll take a single unsupported step. Speech-wise, Kevin has claimed he knows ‘block’ (‘dok’) and ‘door’ (‘doo’). He still primarily focuses on words he can start with a ”d’ sound, even though he says the (apparently) meaningless word ‘ah-oh’ all the time as well. He also likes to practice the ‘tsh’ sound of ‘toothbrush’ and ‘Christmas’, and will, when pressured, do ‘mama’ (yaya).  But… it’s clear there are some words he’s avoiding even trying. We’ll ask him to say a word and he’ll refuse, look away from us, say ‘daddy’, and eventually get upset if we keep pushing him. Sometimes he’s in far more verbal moods than others. But we’ve definitely reached the point where, say, baby sign language probably alleviates problems. If only he’d learn it. He’ll stand in his playpen and just… holler when he wants something. He knows hollering has worked in the past, and he’s unwilling to try anything else, even when hollering proves so vague that he rarely gets what he wants.

    He’s quite the tool user. He likes to play with zippers, especially on Raymond’s pullover. He unzips it. Then, he lifts Raymond’s hand and puts it on the zipper, so Raymond will zip it up again for him. He’s used me the same way to make a toy pop its buttons out so he can push them in again. Why bother learning to do it himself when he has people who can do it for him? It’s unfortunately a reaction I’ve observed in myself in the past.

    He’s frightened of more things now– or rather, he’s frightened of the same singular thing that has always frightened him, but he sees it now in more places. It started long ago with the song ‘Iron Man’. When anybody sang it, he cried and cried. Why? Nobody knew. And everybody– everybody– had to try it and see his reaction for themselves.

    Then he got a toy for his birthday: a steering wheel, with buttons and sounds and a mechanical driving game in the center part of the wheel. One of the engine noises was a growly vroom. It terrified him. Lately, he’s realized that two of his truck-style toys both have certain noises that are kind of… growly vrooms. He doesn’t like them AT ALL. Nor does he like staticky radio stations. It’s very sad, but what is even more sad is that he’s incredibly cute when frightened. 

    He doesn’t immediately cry when frightened these days. Instead, he stares at the scary object. Then he lays down on his side and stares at it some more. Sometimes, if he’s uncertain about it, he’ll trigger the scary sound again. Then, he’ll crawl away from it and give somebody a big happy hug, grinning and giggling– but a moment later, he’s laying curled up on his side, staring at the scary toy, even if it’s now inactive. This repeats a few times, until finally he breaks down in sobbing.  And we have no idea why!

    So there you go: Robin at 16ish months.

     
  • Chrysoula 11:03 am on July 31, 2008 | 1 Permalink | Reply
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    Last night, we dug out some foam alphabet blocks that had been stashed somewhere last time we cleaned Robin’s room. And we learned a new facet of his personality.

    We would stack the blocks up.

    Robin would knock them down.

    We’d make a neat pyramid.

    He’d scatter it.

    We’d stuff all the blocks in a container and he’d stomp over (and somehow it was stomping despite being on all fours) and pull them all out.

    From across the room, he’d charge a four-block tower like it was an affront to God, or at least him, and whack it over, and then pick up the individual blocks and toss them aside.

    He didn’t laugh. He stuck out his little jaw in an expression of grim determination.

    Later, he was on his back on the floor drinking his bedtime bottle. I stacked all the blocks into a mega-tower. He looked at it, and waved his feet toward it, as if he could kick it over from the other side of the room. When that didn’t work, he took his bottle out of his mouth, and stared meaningfully at the tower. Then he popped the bottle back in again, as if to say, “I’ll be coming for you later.”

    And he did. He scattered those blocks far and wide. Then he threw them, for good measure.

     
  • Chrysoula 1:02 pm on July 29, 2008 | 0 Permalink | Reply
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    In the last 24 hours, Robin has started pulling himself up in his playpen regularly and easily. As has become usual for him, he first hit this milestone three weeks ago or so, did it a few times and then stopped. But in the last day he’s started doing it again at the drop of a hat.

    He’s also figured out how to navigate the single step between each room of our house, up and down. He crawled over to the staircase and peered up and down it thoughtfully before backing away.

    He also got to pet a live vacuum cleaner as it roared next to him! He was nervous but petting it was the only way forward.

    And he got to try some edamame, since previous exposures to soy haven’t caused any problems.

    Currently his favorite meal is a slice of bread, torn up, and a chunk of cheddar, cut into little pieces. I try to mix it up some with apples and grapes and blueberries and broccoli but it is only bread and cheese that gets reliably devoured.

     
  • Chrysoula 2:28 pm on July 28, 2008 | 0 Permalink | Reply
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    So, I’m doing Rock Band singing and I gave him the Logitech microphone. for the PS2.  While I was setting up with the controller he was trying to grab it from me. As soon as I picked up my microphone he went over and grabbed his. And then he spent the whole song looking between me and the tv and his microphone. Heh heh heh.

     
  • Chrysoula 3:11 pm on June 27, 2008 | 0 Permalink | Reply

    Robin is exploring the basics of pulling up, by trying to climb onto the lovesac. He doesn’t succeed but he’s realized that he could theoretically get to things out of his reach, and putting his ‘feet’ on the floor would help.

    He still doesn’t do standard-crawl but he can army crawl forward with the best of them.

    He’s a happy kid today, even when he bumps his head.

     
  • Chrysoula 2:19 pm on June 23, 2008 | 0 Permalink | Reply

    Robin continues to be enthralled by my mouth. At least once a day I get a comprehensive dental inspection, his fingers prodding my lips, teeth, gums and tongue, while he stares in fascinated horror. That’s usually the only time he also submits to me prodding his mouth. Turnabout is fair play, I guess.

     
  • Chrysoula 7:34 pm on June 19, 2008 | 0 Permalink | Reply

     
  • Chrysoula 3:35 pm on June 11, 2008 | 2 Permalink | Reply

    Neat developmental anecdote:

    Robin likes to use one finger to touch things. It’s very cute.  He can pick things up between two fingers, too, although he prefers the more general purpose ‘rake’, which seems inspired by what adults do with keyboards.

    As of recently, Robin can point to the same shape across multiple pages of a book. For example, in Goodnight, Moon, he touches the red balloon on every page it appears. He’ll also touch little yellow flowers in Secret Seahorse. Kevin’s theory is that they look like buttons as on his toys, which is quite possible– he just poked the red-lit Playstation power button the same way. And of course he loves clicking a mouse.

    Also, yesterday, (and I tried to get this on video but I was too late) he was playing with this toy truck, and everytime he pressed on it one of the power tool buttons would go ‘Whhrrrrrr’, and he would respond with ‘Rrrrrrrr!’

    He also fake coughs. And pays intent attention when I try to teach him how to clap his hands.

    He still doesn’t crawl, although he’s awfully mobile despite this. He’s a master of pushing up into a sitting position, rotating, flopping, pushing himself backward farther from his goal and wailing in frustration before getting distracted by something closer to him. He can adopt the crawling position on hands and knees, and even lift one hand up to grab at something but the closest he’s come to proper crawling has involved his head pressed against the floor.

    I wonder if I may be manifesting a mild form of SAD due to the overcast year.

     
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